Man Vs Woman Essay, Research Paper
Women vs. Man
Physical, psychological, and sexually women and men are different. Physically the most recognized difference between the two sexies is that men have a penis and women have a vagina. Most men also have smaller breast. Men also have different body structures than women. Women have big hips in order to give birth and men have one less rib then women, but women can’t complain about this because they gave that rib to us. Men and women also have different facial features. Along with looking different men and women think different too. This makes them different psychologically. The psychological differences start at an early age. Little boys are more likely to play with trucks and little girls are more likely to play with dolls. Some say that this is sexist parenting. For example, parents will give a little boy a truck before they will give him a doll or they will give their little girl a doll before they will give her a truck. This is not true. Scientists have found that if a girl has a choice between playing with a doll and playing with a truck, the girl will most likely play with the truck. And if a boy has a choice between playing with a truck or with a doll he is most likely going to pick the truck. Of course there are exceptions to this rule, there are some cases where either the male or female child likes to play with the opposite toys. For example a girl may play with truck while a little boy will play with a doll. The term for having both female and male characteristics, like stated in the example, is androgyny or more commonly called “tom boy” or “tom girl”. Another difference between the two sexes is that males are more aggressive. When they play they like to make GI Joe’s beat each other up or they like to wrestle. Boys want to be warriors. Studies have shown that females aren’t this aggressive. When girls play they are more concerned about what the dolls are doing, and how the others that they are playing with are feeling. In other words boys just want to play while girls want to know what you are thinking and how you feel. Women are born nurturers they also notice more details then men. Men seem to not care about details. For example, my husband doesn’t read the instructions on how to put any thing together until he has, unsuccessfully, tried to put it together all weekend. Men also won’t ask for directions until they have driven past the same gas station fifty times and even then if there is a women in the car she goes in and asks for the directions, but this is what makes men so lovable and funny. Men won’t ask for directions and women will because they communicate in different ways. There are many gender differences when it comes to communication. Women are more skilled at reading nonverbal cues, such as body language. Researchers have found that women are more likely than men to inquire about upsetting situations that another person is in, and to use comforting messages that acknowledge the feelings of that person. When men get together with other men they are more likely to talk about cars or sports than their hair or what they did that day. Whereas, women would rather talk about their feeling or what they were thinking about than of sports or cars. It is also proven that men interrupt more than women do. Researchers also found out that women talking to women are more likely to tell their personal business than men talking to men, but if a man is talking to a woman that he is convertible with, he is capable of being just as self-disclosing as a woman would be. This is he will began to talk about his feelings or his personal business. Although women and men communicate so differently they understand each other, most of the time. Humans are the only species that communicate the way we do. Along with looking different, thinking different and then communication different males and females are also different when it comes to sex. Men hit there sexual prime when they are about nineteen or twenty, where as women hit theirs when they turn thirty-five to forty. Also, the number of females that masturbate is very low compared to the number of men that masturbate. Only about forty-two percent of women masturbate compared to the sixty-three percent of men who masturbate. Men have more testosterone. This is the hormone that gives you your libido. It is also proven that men do not attach many emotions to sexual intercourse, unlike women. Men are “body centered and then person centered.” This means that they want to please their body before they want to please their mind. Women are the opposite “person centered then body centered.” They want to please their mind and then their body. In other words men like one-night stands where most women want an emotional relationship before they will let a guy stay over. When people finally do go to bed together they differ very little in the department of erotica. Their fantasies may be different but they all come down to getting it the way they want it. There is one more very important difference between women and men. Women can have more than one orgasm. This is because women do not go into the refractory period that most men do. Some, very few, men can have more than one orgasm but it is rare. Women and men may be very different in many ways but it is proven that both men and women love sex. That should be enough to keep them together.