Adoption And Identity Formation Essay Research Paper

Adoption And Identity Formation Essay, Research Paper

There has been an enormous amount of research conducted about adoptees and their

problems with identity formation. Many of the researchers agree on some of the

causes of identity formation problems in adolescent adoptees, while other

researchers conclude that there is no significant difference in identity

formation in adoptees and birth children. This paper will discuss some of the

research which has been conducted and will attempt to answer the following

questions: Do adoptees have identity formation difficulties during adolescence?

If so, what are some of the causes of these vicissitudes? Is there a significant

difference between identity formation of adoptees and nonadoptees? The National

Adoption Center reports that fifty-two percent of adoptable children have

attachment disorder symptoms. It was also found that the older the child when

adopted, the higher the risk of social maladjustment (Benson et al., 1998). This

is to say that a child who is adopted at one-week of age will have a better

chance of normal adjustment than a child who is adopted at the age of ten. This

may be due in part to the probability that an infant will learn how to trust,

where as a ten-year-old may have more difficulty with this task, depending on

his history. Eric Erickson, a developmental theorist, discusses trust issues in

his theory of development. The first of Erickson`s stages of development is

Trust v. Mistrust. A child who experiences neglect or abuse can have this stage

of development severely damaged. An adopted infant may have the opportunity to

fully learn trust, where as an older child may have been shuffled from foster

home to group home as an infant, thereby never learning trust. Even though Trust

v. Mistrust is a major stage of development, the greatest psychological risk for

adopted children occurs during the middle childhood and adolescent years (McRoy

et al., 1990). As children grow and change into adolescents, they begin to

search for an identity by finding anchoring points with which to relate.

Unfortunately, adopted children do not have a biological example to which to

turn (Horner & Rosenberg, 1991), unless they had an open adoption in which

they were able to form a relationship with their biological families as well as

their adoptive ones. Also key to the development of trust is the ability to bond

with adoptive parents. The absence of a biological bond between the adoptee and

adoptive parents may cause trust issues in the adoptee (Wegar, 1995). Baran

(1975) stated, Late adolescence . . . is the period of intensified identity

concerns and is a time when the feelings about adoption become more intense and

questions about the past increase. Unless the adopted child has the answers to

these arising questions, identity formation can be altered and somewhat halted.

McRoy et al. (1990) agree with this point: Adolescence is a period when young

people seek an integrated and stable ego identity. This occurs as they seek to

link their current self-perceptions with their self perceptions from earlier

periods and with their cultural and biological heritage (Brodzindky, 1987, p.

37). Adopted children sometimes have difficulty with this task because they

often do not have the necessary information from the past to begin to develop a

stable sense of who they are. They often have incomplete knowledge about why

they were relinquished and what their birth parents were like, and they may

grieve not only for the loss of their birth parents but for the loss of part of

themselves. In essence, it seems that the adolescent`s identity formation is

impaired because he holds the knowledge that his roots or his essence have been

severed and remain on the unknown side of the adoption barrier. The identity

struggles of the adolescent are ⌠part of a human need to connect with

their natural clan and failure to do so may precipitate psychopathology (Wegar,

1995). Also in agreement with Wegar, McRoy, and Baran is Frisk. Baran et al.

(1975) wrote, ⌠Frisk conceptualized that the lack of family background

knowledge in the adoptee prevents the development of a healthy genetic ego . .

. In most of the studies surveyed, the researchers are in agreement about

one fact. Vital to the adopted adolescent`s identity development is the

knowledge of the birth family and the circumstances surrounding the adoption.

Without this information, the adolescent has difficulty deciding which family

(birth or adopted) he resembles. During the search for an identity in

adolescence, the child may face an array of problems including hostility toward

the adoptive parents, rejection of anger toward the birth parents, self-hatred,

transracial adoption concerns, feeling of rootlessness . . . . (McRoy et al.,

1990). While searching for an identity, adolescent adoptees sometimes are

involved in a behavior which psychologists term family romance. This is not a

romance in a sexual manner, but rather a romance in the sense of fantasizing

about birth parents and their personal qualities. Horner and Rosenberg (1991)

stated that ⌠the adopted child may develop a family romance in order to

defend against painful facts. Often times, adoptees wonder why they were

adopted, and because closed-adoptions are common, the adoptee is left with many

unanswered questions about the circumstances of the adoption. The adoptee may

have a tendency to harbor negative feelings about himself, feeling like he was

unwanted, bad, or rejected by the birth parent. These feelings can be quite

powerful, so the adoptee will engage in this family romancing behavior in order

to offset the negative feelings and try to reconcile his identity crisis. This

point is stressed by Horner and Rosenberg (1991) when they write, The painful

reality to be confronted by adoptees is that their biological parents did not

want, or were unable, to find a way of keeping and rearing their own child. The

children feel that they were either not meant to be or intolerable . . . .

Finding an identity, while considering both sets of parents is a difficult task

for the adolescent. The adoptee does not want to hurt or offend his adoptive

parents, and he also does not want to ignore what is known about his biological

roots. Horner and Rosenberg (1991) write: Adoptive status may represent a

developmental interference for children during adolescence. Instead of the usual

struggles over separation and the establishment of a cohesive sense of self and

identity, the adopted child must struggle with the competing and conflictual

issues of good and bad parents, good and bad self, and separation from both

adoptive parents and images of biological parents. If all adoptions were open,

the adoptee would have the ability to know about the traits of each family. He

would have an easier task of forming an identity for himself, rather than

struggling with the issues of to whom he can relate. If the adolescent has some

information about his birth parents, such as ethnicity, socioeconomic status,

and religion, Horner and Rosenberg (1991) believe that the following can happen:

From the bits of fact that they possess, adopted children develop and elaborate

explanations of their adoptions. At the same time, they begin to explain

themselves, and they struggle to develop a cohesive and realistic sense of who

they are and who they can become. It appears that if the adoptee has even a

minimal amount of information about his birth parents and adoption, he will have

an easier time with identity formation than an adoptee who has no information

about his adoption. The adoptive parents can also play a key role in aiding in

identity formation of the adopted adolescent. Much of the research I surveyed at

least touched upon the role of the adoptive parents. Kornitzer stated that the

more mysterious the adoptive parents make things for the child the more he will

resort to fantasy (Baran et al., 1975). This is yet another argument for open

adoptions. Again, if the child knows the circumstances of his adoption and other

pertinent information about his biological roots, he will have an easier time

forming an identity in adolescence. It is also noted that, . . . young

adoptees are vulnerable to feeling different or bad due to the comments and

actions of others (Wegar, 1995). This is to say that the child will feel more

accepted, and that his adoption is not a stigma if his adoptive parents have the

conviction that being adopted does not make the family bad, and it does not mean

that the adoptive parents are failures because they could not have biological

children. Sometimes the negativity of adoptive parents about the circumstances

of the adoption can be sensed by the adoptee, thus causing the adoptee to

believe that there is something wrong with being adopted. Once again, this can

cause identity formation problems, especially if the adolescent believes that he

is inferior or bad because he is adopted and not raised in his biological

family. The literature on adopted children has long documented particular and

sometimes intense struggles around identity formation, and suggests that in many

ways adopted children follow a different developmental course from children who

are raised by their biological parents (Horner and Rosenberg, 1991). While

most of the studies I read found that adoptees have difficulty in identity

formation during adolescence, I did find an article which refutes this point.

Kelly et al. (1998) write: Developing a separate, autonomous, mature sense of

self is widely recognized as a particularly complex task for adoptees. While

many scholars have concluded that identity formation is inherently more

difficult for adoptees some recent comparisons of adopted and nonadopted youth

have found no differences in adequacy of identity formation, and a study by

Stein and Hoopes (1985) revealed higher ego identity scores for adoptees. Goebel

and Lott (1986) found that such factors as subjects` age, sex, personality

variables, family characteristics, and motivation to search for birth parents

accounted more for quality of identity formation than did adoptive status. In

conclusion, it is difficult to say who is right in their beliefs about adoptees

and identity formation. The research I have reviewed has mostly shown that

adoptees do have quite a bit a difficulty forming an identity during

adolescence, and that this difficulty can be due to a number of factors.

Negative parental attitudes about adoption can have a negative affect on the

adoptee. The issue of open versus closed adoptions will forever be a debate, but

the research does show that the more an adoptee knows about his birth family and

the circumstances surrounding his adoption, the easier it will be for him to

form an identity during adolescence. Most of the researchers who wrote about the

family romance seemed to do so in a negative manner, when in fact I believe that

the ability to fantasize about the birth family may be a healthy option for the

adolescent who is the victim of a closed adoption. It allows him to construct a

view of what his birth family is like, and it also allows him to relieve himself

of some of the internal pain which is caused by closed adoptions. Overall, most

of the literature supported the notion that adoptees do indeed have identity

formation problems.


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